The idea of keeping your husband in strict and uncompromising chastity and not letting him orgasm – sometimes permanently and forever – is a strange one to most women, and one most will immediately dismiss, thinking somehow it is abdicating her womanhood not to give her man “what he wants”.
But I think it’s important to understand chastity is not the same as celibacy, at least not in the context of male chastity.
In a celibate marriage, sexual contact is non-existent.
While this is no doubt mutually agreeable in some marriages, it’s rare. Usually it’s because one partner (usually the woman, I’m afraid) has said “no more sex” or simply behaves in such as way as to preclude it.
This is why the idea male chastity will fix a broken marriage is nonsense.
The practice is intended to improve and enhance your sex life.
If you’re in a celibate marriage, then your sex life has been killed stone dead, and you need to get it fixed before you start trying to introduce kink.
If you don’t, then what you’ll be saying in effect, is “I want to have more and better sex and an more intimate and fulfilling relationship with you”.
But what she’ll be hearing is “I’ve just given you a great excuse for avoiding having sex with me even more than you are now”.
This will not end well, I assure you.
But in a chaste marriage, where they practice male chastity, there is typically more sexual contact and increased physical and emotional intimacy – the qualifier being the man rarely if ever gets to orgasm.
This is a good description of my marriage to John.
And while some women might be shocked at this, the fact of the matter is it is this way because this is what he asked me for.
And yes, at first I was surprised and a little sceptical.
But because I love him and I want to please him, I gave it a try.
And… oh my, am I ever glad I did!
Because male chastity in general, and orgasm denial in particular has been the best thing I ever did, next to actually marrying him.
Because the quality, frequency and duration of our lovemaking has increased dramatically. Almost any relationship tend to cool off after a while and sex becomes routine and even boring. Male chastity and orgasm denial put the spark right back into it, simply because he’s always turned on and can’t get the thought of making love to you out of his mind.
In other words, it’s just like it is at the beginning of a new relationship where everything is fresh, new and exciting.
So that’s the why of it.
How do I do it?
Well, there are two parts to this.
First, John is locked, by his own consent, in a stainless steel chastity device.
It’s not 100% secure (no device is), but it’s an effective deterrent. It stops any “accidents” when we are making love and it also means for him to masturbate (which would be cheating!) very difficult.
He could still orgasm with the device on if he put his mind to it, but it would be painful and counterproductive to the game he wants me to play with him.
And secondly, it’s all done with John’s agreement, consent and cooperation.
Despite what you read on the ‘net on blogs and forums a man cannot be forced into chastity against his will.
It’s both physically and legally impossible.
That’s just a fantasy and one you’d be better off seeing as the fiction and the lie it is.
What’s more, it’s also physically impossible to create a chastity device a man can’t escape from.
No matter how robust and well designed a device is, an engineering shop would be able to remove it.
But that would be going to an extreme, and the chances are any device you could possibly make yourself or buy, whether off the shelf or custom-made, would quickly fall to a decent hacksaw.
Unfortunately, the Internet is filled with fantasists and wannabes and their frankly silly and unrealistic rubbish about male chastity, orgasm denial, and female led relationships.
Listen to what couples who have been living the lifestyle 24/7 for more than a decade have to say.
It makes sense to listen to people who practice what they preach, don’t you think?
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Sarah Jameson is the creator and host of the highly regarded Male Chastity Blog, which is rapidly becoming the principal source of sound, factual, and usable information about male chastity on the Internet.
She is a happily married woman and freelance writer who has kept her husband in ultra-strict long-term chastity and orgasm denial for the past 13 years and now shares her experiences to help other couples embrace this deeply satisfying and rewarding but frequently misunderstood lifestyle.